Celebrating the Saint in You

by Chloė on March 16, 2014 · 0 comments

In between another green beer and a delicious, scantily clothed escort snuggling in your arms, let us take a moment to reminisce a bit about St. Patrick’s Day.

Legend has it that he chased snakes out of Ireland during a 40-day fast on top of a hill

Were the snakes fake? Why yes. Yes they were. The tale is more suggestive of an allegory in that they were linked to heathen practices during that time. St. Patrick’s dramatic act of snake eradication may actually be a metaphor for his Christianizing influence. Whether snake, lizard or pagan, the creatures did and do not exist in Ireland. According to Irish folklore, St. Pat used the three-leaf shamrock to explain the Holy Trinity to Irish pagans. By 1996, St. Patrick’s Day had turned into a 5-day gala of festivities. Fast forward to the present.

What’s your celebration?

Mr. Hobbyist, there is no need for you to spend the rest of this weekend with your lonesome. A lovely handful of independent escorts here at City Girls are waiting with their shamrocks in hand to cook up a sexy storm with you tonight. Chances are excellent that you will have a very difficult time choosing which sensual vixen to grace your presence.

Why not plan a slumber party?

Even though tomorrow is technically a work day for most of you hobbyists, it will also be a day filled with parades, Irish traditions and decadent brunches. Just imagine waking up to the fresh, floral scent of an erotic angel tangled around you. You might call in sick immediately, put your phone on silent and create a little bed in breakfast of your own.

TOFTT is always living it up at City Girls!

We’ve definitely got the party attitude around here. Always have. That’s why we are constantly offering specials to select VIP members. We live in the land of opportunity here in the States and our TOFTT rates exemplify just that. If not during this Saint Patrick’s Day weekend, then sometime in the near future select a feminine morsel of TOFTT-participating club members to dazzle your mind and person. But be prepared to come down hard after your date. Erotic excellence is the only way to describe our luscious independent escorts, my friends. These succulent ladies will leave you drunk with bliss. We’re sure of it.

Constantly getting it on… Chloe xoxo

Are You a Peculiar Hobbyist?

by Chloė on March 13, 2014 · 0 comments

There are gentlemen in the hobby with uncommon characteristics. They may have idiosyncrasies that separate them from the ‘average’ hobbyist in the form of physical, psychological or circumstantial conditions. Here at City Girls, we consider every person as an equal, no matter their persuasion, ethnicity, physical state or social status.

This article reaches out to such hobbyists while also speaking to independent escorts who may spend time in the future with these unique gentlemen.

Physically disabled hobbyists

Such a gentleman may be bound to a wheelchair, rely upon medical devices/equipment or struggle with diabetes, obesity or excessive weight. Despite his physical limitations, he has needs just like every other man. It takes an independent escort with a compassionate and empathetic personality to accommodate him both on physical and emotional levels. As a result of his physical restrictions, this hobbyist may require a handicap-accessible location and special attention to an environment that will address his condition. He may not be able to perform like other men and will benefit from an escort who can bend her policies and services while retaining her personal and professional comfort level. His self-esteem may be delicate and require a gentle companion who can reinforce his confidence. A companion who spends time with a disabled hobbyist has a lot to think about in advance and should consider every detail very carefully.

Hobbyists with mental challenges

An independent escort should carefully consider her ability, desire and safety when entertaining a gentleman with any sort of clinically mental issue. Does this hobbyist deal with a neurosis? If so, what symptoms characterize the illness? Is he bi-polar, paranoid or schizophrenic? The right provider will accept his disorder as part of a normal lifestyle for him and place special emphasis on friendship and understanding. He will value her companionship and might even become a very loyal client.

The importance of diet and medication

An escort should never entertain a client without first confirming his physical and mental dispositions and any dietary limitations and medicinal requirements. A hobbyist who fails to take his meds can present a life and death situation to an independent escort, thereby placing her livelihood and safety at risk. If he has severe allergies, she should know about them in advance. If he is diabetic, she should ensure that she offers him appropriate snacks. She must confirm in advance and at the time of greeting that he has taken any required medication on a timely basis. Further, she should rely upon her intuition, her ‘gut instinct’ if you will, whether or not she feels that he is being truthful.

Hobbyists with physical deficiencies

Physical birth defects, deformities from arthritis, malformed limbs, and scars from burns or car accidents alter the physique of this hobbyist. A companion should be secure within herself, knowing and accepting that he is human with feelings and needs just like every other person on this planet. Never should she judge him or form a negative opinion. Part of her job as a professional companion is to reassure him that she accepts him for the person he is.

Hobbyists accompanied by others

A gentleman may request an escort to visit him in his home if he is a caretaker. There are actually some hobbyists who either care for elderly parents or are elderly persons themselves. The situation may be perfectly safe. However, an independent escort should use extreme caution in ensuring that the arrangement will not adversely impact her safety, discretion and privacy. Though this type of occasion seems unusual, it is probably perfectly realistic for the client who will appreciate his companion’s services. Again, an escort must always exercise good judgment when determining the truthfulness of her client and the authenticity of the encounter.

Achieving a successful date with special circumstances

A hobbyist should fully disclose any uncommon physical or mental challenges to his companion. In turn, an escort should do her homework educating and preparing herself in advance. The hobbyist should not take advantage of his escort and neither should get emotionally attached. When both parties are prepared, the groundwork will be in place for a fantastic encounter.

Faithfully, Chloe xoxo

Decoding Body Language, II

by Chloė on March 10, 2014 · 0 comments

sports escorts feminismThere are folks who light up a room with good energy. There are others who seem surrounded by an invisible dark cloud casting their spiritual heaviness on those around them.

If you are skeptical about the significance of body language, take this into consideration: since 1996, experts from the Pentagon have studied the body language of fifteen different prominent figures with the most recent being Vladimir Putin, his gestures and ‘Soviet face’. There are even institutions where you can get certified in body language expertise. This article is the second in a series.

The flirtatious femme fatale

It’s pretty obvious when an escort is flirting with a hobbyist. She will make eye contact, lean toward him, laugh and smile constantly. Due to her sensual tension, she may noticeably touch herself in subtle ways including her jewelry, neck and hair. It is quite flattering for a hobbyist when an independent escort flirts with him because she gives him total affirmation that he can ‘move forward’.

The lustful paramour

Lust is an amplified version of flirtation. The situation is charged with erotic nuances in which her eye contact becomes overtly direct and her pupils dilate. Sexy movements are pronounced as she arches her back with chest protruding and legs crossed if she is sitting along with lips slightly parted. Her breath will become heavier and she will find reasons to touch him no matter where they are. For the eager hobbyist, this situation is a slam dunk. She’s into him! He should respond to her actions and well, accept what is being offered.

The disinterested escort

Oh dear. This is not a good situation. Without eye contact the date is grim. Further, if she crosses her arms in front of him or shows signs of awkwardness, fidgeting in an uncomfortable way, she’s faking it. If a hobbyist feels that she is subtly resisting his advances when he tries to get cozy, all bets are off that the date is going to be genuine and one that both enjoy.

The conflicted companion

A lady who does not truly likr her profession as an entertainer (or is simply having a ‘bad hair day’) will display body language that is inconsistent from one moment to the next. Whether she is tired, unhappy or in a bad mood, her gestures can make a hobbyist feel very uncomfortable. She may look into his eyes then abruptly turn away; move a little closer then retreat when he reciprocates. She may seem outgoing but act shyly because she is being reserved. Most likely, she is dealing with outside issues that do not have anything to do with her date (unless her date is a jerk). The best a hobbyist can do in this unfortunate situation is to go with the flow, not force the situation and make the most of it.

Body language prevails as the unspoken communication

Women often give off a variety of signals that are mixed, making interpretation a bit challenging. However, chances are that a hobbyist will know when an escort is really into him.

Yummy kisses, Chloe

How to Give Gifts to an Escort

by Chloė on March 5, 2014 · 0 comments

Many hobbyists find the notion of giving gifts to their escorts quite romantic. It could be on the first date or several dates after they have established a sense of familiarity with the same lady.

Naturally, a polite and well-mannered companion will be content with the mere gesture of receiving a man’s token of affection no matter his gift of choice. We have come up with some helpful tips and guidelines for gift-giving guys to follow in hopes of brightening their dates and the smiles of many beautiful ladies who adorn them with their presence.

How mundane are flowers, champagne and wine?

Although they are considered your average and most obvious gifts of choice, any one or combination is sure to please. Unless you know specifically what type of flower she favors, stick with classic and elegant red roses and champagne. Every woman loves flowers and will be thrilled to toast to a sip of champagne even if she does not drink the entire glass. Some independent escorts are more particular about what flowers they like (orchids, tulips, lilies, etc.)

Dare to get a bit more intimate!

Giving lingerie is always an exciting prospect which every woman can put to good use (always to the visual benefit of the gift giver himself!). However, it might be a wise and safe decision to wait until after you have seen her a few times and gotten a flavor for what she likes and the sizes that she wears. Unless she informs you otherwise, black is a safe bet. Unless she clearly educates you on such lacy details, stay away from risky colors such as red, brown, burgundy, turquoise, pink and white until you know her better. Certain colors may clash with her skin tone or she simply may not favor your choice. Keep the styles simple and do your best to select sizes that you believe will fit her (um, spy on her bra and panty size when she’s not looking).

Go out on a limb with something really practical

Many independent escorts feature well-prepared wish lists on their personal websites that put to rest any question about the ideal gift that will make her day. Without that lifesaver of a guideline, what’s a gentleman to do? For starters, take note of her obvious personal belongings (without prying, of course) such as her computer, cellular phone, interest in music, favorite day spa, preferred destination, frequently flown airlines and the list goes on. Because so many ladies rely solely on their livelihood as independent escorts, they prefer to receive practical gifts. This is where gift certificates carry a

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lot of weight. Does she like to shop at Whole Foods? Would she get excited by a household shopping spree at Bed, Bath and Beyond? How about a year’s supply of special pet food for her dog or cat? Some ladies are thrilled when their gentlemen friends contribute to a charitable organization of their choice.

How pricey can you get?

For the truly enamored suitor, there is always Agent Provocateur, a top-of-the-line lingerie retailer. This sophisticated, glamorous boutique may be accessed online for discreet selection. Obviously, you have to purchase in advance with a destination and delivery date in mind. The world of AP has a gentleman’s best interest in mind with their virtual, personal shopper to ensure the perfect purchase with delicious hints of fantasy to add savoir faire to your date. AP is not for the financially faint hearted so have your pocket book ready. For the financially well-endowed sugar daddy who feels confident about his relationship with his sugar baby, perhaps a new car or investment in her entrepreneurial venture becomes you. We’ve heard of such occurrences on several occasions!

Everyone loves receiving gifts

At the end of the day, even a small box of chocolates will tug at the hearts of most companions. Women are just that way though many independent escorts tend to be a wee bit extravagant. Perhaps the thrill of a dainty necklace ‘accidentally’ nestled between succulent truffles isn’t a bad idea!

Scrumptious kisses, Chloe xoxo

Most independent escorts enjoy their profession because of the freedom and independence that it gives them. On occasion, a companion may find herself becoming extremely comfortable with a client or even having feelings for him. When a hobbyist shares her sentiments, a potential sugar relationship is born. When an independent escort becomes a sugar baby, her regular business becomes inactive. In some cases, she maintains multiple sugar relationships simultaneously. For the hobbyist turned sugar daddy, what is his role? We have come up with some guidelines based upon what we’ve seen and heard within the industry.

A sugar daddy should be in a position to meet his financial obligation

A sugar daddy is an established gentleman who is usually a wealthy entrepreneur or operates a successful corporation. He is at a point in his life where he can enjoy the freedom and exhilaration that being with a sugar baby gives him. His net worth is solid, he drives a luxury automobile and he can afford to take care of himself. He has ample income to compensate his sugar baby on a regular basis (weekly, bi-weekly or monthly). In exchange, he enjoys her companionship through regular dating, traveling, conversation and intimacy.

A sugar arrangement should be respectful and beneficial to both

A sugar relationship is a contracted relationship. Both parties should enter into the agreement fully aware of what each gives to the other. How often will a sugar daddy want to see his sugar baby? How much advance notice does she need to set aside quality time to see him? Details of the arrangement should be understood at all times to keep things clear. A proper sugar daddy demonstrates the value and worth of his sugar baby by looking out for her in several ways:

  • He sees that she is well taken care of with an elegant wardrobe;
  • He makes sure that living conditions are top notch;
  • He ensures that her transportation is more than adequate and accommodating;
  • He regularly shows his appreciation for her beauty, intelligence and is there for her when she needs him.

Generosity is important

Above and beyond the agreed financial compensation that a sugar daddy bestows upon his sugar baby, he shows his generosity by giving her gifts and trinkets and even surprises her with romantic travel excursions. Remember, the little details that count! On one occasion he may bring her flowers; on another he may surprise her with tickets to the theater; he might treat her to a luxurious dinner at a prestigious restaurant; and in some cases, may even buy her a new car. A sugar baby should feel that she is special to her sugar daddy. The sum of his gestures and her gracious receipt of them will encourage a wonderfully exciting and stable sugar relationship.

Setting boundaries is the golden rule in a sugar relationship

No matter how genuine, intense or romantic a sugar relationship becomes, a sugar daddy and sugar baby should not become too attached and never lose respect. Doing so goes against the rules of the contracted relationship, blurs boundaries and can seriously jeopardize

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a job or go to school and even have children. A sugar daddy should expect his sugar baby to establish some sort of schedule that applies to how often and when they see each other, frequency of phone calls and communication in general. On the other hand, a sugar daddy should not:

  • Abuse the relationship by taking advantage of her in any way;
  • Show up at her home unexpectedly;
  • Control her life; or
  • Infringe upon her private matters.

A sugar baby is not an object but a human being to be respected at all times.

Never forget good hygiene

When a sugar daddy takes good care of himself his sugar baby will appreciate his efforts and likely find him more attractive. The last thing a sugar daddy should do is ‘let himself go’ because he feels that he is entitle to do so. Chances are that his sugar baby will be considerably younger than him with a lot of vitality. Regular exercise, a healthy diet and vitamin supplements all contribute to good health. Neat, fashionable attire, meticulous grooming and regular skin treatments are all a part of maintaining good hygiene.

A sugar relationship should be loads of fun

The world is an exciting playground in a sugar relationship! Build great experiences by getting to know one another, going places, traveling, dining, talking and laughing. A sugar daddy should take in his sugar baby’s youthful exuberance and positive energy by living life to the fullest. Isn’t that what it’s all about?

Unforgettable kisses, Chloe xoxo

Famous Courtesans in History, a Series

by Chloė on February 27, 2014 · 0 comments

The list of courtesans known for leaving their marks in society delves deep into the pages of history. These great women of pleasure used their sensual charm and razor-sharp wits to accumulate power and wealth. This article is the first in a series that will talk about some of the great femme fatales in the 1800s that pepper the history of the demi-monde.

Cora Pearl

Born Emma Elizabeth Crouch, Cora was the daughter of cellist and composer Frederick Nicholls Crouch. At the ripe age of approximately twenty, her very first encounter with a man was not one to which she consented. It is believed that this abrupt initiation left her with a certain disdain for men and marked her as one of the most unfeeling of the great courtesans. Cora only loved men for what they could do for her. Living in France, she progressed rapidly through the echelons of European aristocracy and had an affair with Prince Napoleon that lasted for years. With her vast accumulation of wealth, she purchased luxurious apartments that were lavishly decorated and threw decadent parties. But her opulent lifestyle did not last. With the fall of the Second Empire came an end to her power and she died in poverty.

Esther Guimond

Esther was a courtesan who held incredible influence over the press and politics of her time. She surrounded herself with only the wealthiest of suitors and regularly entertained notable writers and influential politicians. Esther became known for her intellect and sharp wit. Her influence continued into her old age.

Leonide LeBlanc

A famous French actress of the Second Empire, Leonide became known as Mademoiselle Maximum through her lust for luxury and excess. Her most famous suitor was Duc d’Aumale. She was a rather fickle girl with many generous suitors who never seemed to last for long. Her many charms earned her forgiveness. As much as she loved extravagance, she often made careless decisions and eventually had to downgrade her lifestyle.

Alice Ozy

BornJulie Justine Pilloy, Alice was a successful French actress but best known as a courtesan. Her gentlemen friends were notables from Paris society. Her affair with Duc d’Aumale established her though she moved on to acquire a series of affluent lovers including Théophile Gautier, Napoleon III Bonaparte and Empereur des Franҫais. Her financial

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Marie Duplessis

Marie was born in Normandy, France as Alphonsine Rose Plessis. At the age of fifteen she moved to Paris and worked in a dress shop. A beautiful young woman, she was approached by prominent men who desired her company in private and social settings. Eventually, she became a popular courtesan, hosting a salon where politicians, writers and artists gathered for socializing. She was the mistress of Alexandre Dumas and the alleged lover of composer Franz Liszt. She was briefly married to at least two of her suitors. Demure and charming, she mixed well into respectable society and lived with abandon. She died at the young age of twenty-three of tuberculosis. Her funeral was said to have been lavish and attended by hundreds of people.

Happiness and the Art of the GFE

by Chloė on February 24, 2014 · 0 comments

The art of the GFE can be compared to traits of the art of the courtisanerie. In Italy during the Renaissance, the original courtesans were known as cortigiana onesta. These cortigiana were ‘honest courtesans’ in that many were regarded as intellectuals. They were well-educated, worldly and often maintained other careers. A highly refined GFE is an independent companion with traits and characteristics similar to original courtesans.

Psychology of a GFE

There are different layers within the girl friend experience that vary from escort to escort and from culture to culture. A GFE in the truest and deepest sense hones a relationship with her client on a longer term basis. She realizes that contentment is a state of mind out of reach for some gentlemen. Therefore, his happiness becomes her focus. She specializes in all aspects that characterize a true relationship zoning in on the desires and emotional needs of her client.

Is the GFE fantasy or reality?

In most cases, the GFE experience offered by an independent escort is pure fantasy. She spends an hour or two or three with her client and takes him on a euphoric ride to ecstasy. At the conclusion of their engagement, they part ways and he rides a sensual high of fulfillment with memories of her for days to come. He is surrounded

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by a halo of satisfaction, smiling from ear to ear. The GFE experience offered by the companion or courtesan is expressed on a longer term basis. Time spent together spills into reality. She becomes more of a confidante, friend and even travel liaison. He comes to rely on her in certain ways further defining her role as his companion. She fills a void in his life, sometimes many. She completes him, bringing a sense of happiness that in some relationships can last for years. However sacrilegious this may sound to convention, his relationship with her may facilitate the continuation of his marriage and therefore the structure of his inner family.

Where is the art?

A true GFE is refined, intelligent, social, supportive and sensual. She is articulate, often bi- or multi-lingual and might have an alternate or full time career on the side. Her hygiene is impeccable and her physique at its best. Though her attributes and characteristics come natural, she harbors a strong awareness as a courtesan to constantly maintain and improve herself. She cures her image as the ideal companion for upscale gentlemen who seek the company of such a lady. She is sophisticated in the sense that her suitor desires to spend regular and lengthy amounts of time with her. This is because she incites normalcy in his life as the companion that she is by evening out those areas in which he lacks. She instills happiness more as a measured lifestyle rather than a short term burst of excitement. Together, they build meaningful memories. She brings meaning and satisfaction to his life.

When a Hobbyist Wants to Marry an Escort

by Chloė on February 19, 2014 · 0 comments

When a dating engagement is carefully measured, considering all aspects of compatibility, the stage is set for explosive chemistry. Such is the scenario when a hobbyist pursues the company of a companion or courtesan who excels in the girl friend experience. Most likely, he is not looking for permanent love. But if he seeks emotional and/or psychological fulfillment or restoration from loneliness, his heart becomes vulnerable. Factor in his escort’s physical splendor and charismatic personality and he becomes a bulls eye target for amour.

While this may appear as a scary question due to the nature of her work as a companion, what man really knows the difference in the beginning of any love relationship? Romance and matters of the heart involve powerfully blinding emotions that can skew the good judgment of anyone.

Is it really love or just infatuation?

There are no guarantees in any relationship and if there were, insurance companies would bank! There are men and women alike who come from multiple divorces, dysfunctional families, broken homes and even abusive backgrounds. Someone, please reveal the ideal formula for a marriage that does not end. Even childhood sweethearts with storybook families end up divorced. Who is to say that the hobbyist/escort romance cannot tie the knot and prevail indefinitely?

Is he headed down the sugar daddy path?

There is a chance that if she stops working in order to devote her time exclusively to her man and their relationship, her income will vanish. Both parties must check within themselves for genuineness of their involvement. Further, supporting a partner is a financial and emotional responsibility (regardless of his net worth) which can burden the relationship if not handled openly and with clear intent. However, if hobbyist turned fiancé accepts his role as main breadwinner, they are in love and escort turned future wife agree, then it is not a sugar relationship.

Will she continue working as an independent escort if they marry?

Now here is an interesting twist that defies all convention. Admittedly, there are those marriages in which an escort remains same with knowledge and acceptance of her husband. Are they swingers? Do they have children? Does he fully accept what she does for a living? Personally, I do not know what the divorce rate is of such a unique demographic, but who cares? Even the most conservative couples divorce for a myriad of reasons. Often when an escorting couple divorces, the split is caused by reasons indirectly related to the act of escorting itself.

Will she sign an annulment?

Doing so may be considered a true test of love. While I understand how a gentleman would want to protect his assets, especially if he has an x-wife who took him to the cleaners during the divorce process, many women find the proposition offensive. Truthfully, two people should marry for nothing but love and a balanced ability of both parties to support each other spiritually, mindfully and psychologically. But that is not the way the world works for most.

Proceed with caution and wisdom

Perhaps the most difficult challenge for the hobbyist who wants to marry his escort is honoring the deepest corners of his integrity. He should remain clear about his true intentions with a sharp eye focused on the fate of his future. In the end, both parties should remember that despite what conventional society has to say, what do they know? If there was a perfect formula for marriage then no one would be divorced.

With boundless kisses, Chloe xoxo

 

Decoding Your Fantasies

by Chloė on February 17, 2014 · 0 comments

Picture the hobbyist in a tepid marriage where sparks have long disappeared. The kids have flown the nest. He loves his wife and does not believe in cheating yet cannot end the marriage due to the tangled nature of their history (mortgages, finances, friends, relatives, grandchildren, etc.). He finds himself looking at other women in ways he never did.

Fantasies provide a necessary escape from the here and now. As long as we do not become too rigid

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or mistake our fantasies for reality they can be entertaining, distracting and arousing. Ooh la la! The possibilities are endless, especially in the hobby. Let us explore a few broad topics that touch (no pun intended) upon your innermost secrets.

Fantasy of the perfect love

Your days are filled with fantasies of a beautiful woman longing for your attention. You yearn for her company and attention. Rather than risk the complications and potential drama of meeting another woman in a conventional manner, you seek the company of a courtesan. Manifested, this situation is more commonly coined as the girl friend experience (GFE). The perfect love can be realized in the sugar daddy/sugar baby relationship when taken to the extreme between hobbyist and companion. In either scenario, finding that ideal match comes as close as to intimate perfection as humanly possible. While the situation may be frowned upon or even immoral in the eyes of some, your marriage stays intact while your emotional and physical needs are met.

The secretive, more perverse side of your desires

While City Girls’ independent escorts tend to be deliciously ‘strawberry, vanilla swirl with whipped cream on top’ if you will, there are those gentlemen who seek ‘triple chocolate peanut butter fudge with nuts on top’, if I may. This is a sweet and sassy way of referring to the kinkier thoughts that inhabit the minds of many (yes, many). Light roll playing, perhaps a bit of fetish or dress up might flight your fancy. Now, while City Girls stops short of classic BDSM, there are those spicy independent escorts who love to kick up their heels with some gentle Domination (call her your Domina or Goddess).

Sensuality is mutual meditation

It is perfectly fine to entertain those lascivious thoughts dwelling in the hidden corners of your mind. Exploring your fantasies with a companion who understands and accepts you can actually improve your quality of living. Realizing your fantasies is invigorating and can instill a sense of freedom.

Turning off auto pilot

If you are a hobbyist or gentleman daydreaming of forbidden erotica perhaps it is time to stop procrastinating and do something about them. There is a common misconception that fantasies objectify and distance partners from one another. It is absolutely untrue. Sharing your secret, sensual cravings can actually promote a strong sense of trust and bring you more in touch with yourself. The private self that does not see work or friends deserves just as much attention. You do not have to be quiet. Just be comfortable and confident about what you want. If you are a newbie in terms of exploring your fantasies, start small and work your way up. Express your desires with your companion to make sure that she too is comfortable. Soon, you will discover kinky bliss!

With a multitude of kinky kisses, Chloe

 

Psychology of a Healthy Escort

by Chloė on February 13, 2014 · 0 comments

A woman chooses to become an independent escort for a variety of reasons. For some readers, the first thing they think of might be the social stigma surrounding a woman who is an escort. Other gentlemen may read these words with nothing but fond memories of service providers (as some like to be called) who are incredible women in their eyes.

We thought it would be interesting to explore some of the more common traits of an independent escort from a non escort and non hobbyist point of view.

An independent escort comes from a troubled childhood

This conception is probably one of the most common in conventional society and recognized among some hobbyists. However, one must consider that if we took a hard look at the psychological profile of every non escort in their profession what we may learn. Through the media we have been exposed to priests who are pedophiles; politicians who betray their wives, families and those who revere them; people who murder their spouses and/or children. The list goes on. The point is that most individuals in the general population do not come from storybook backgrounds. While an independent escort may have grown up in a dysfunctional home, she became an adult capable of making rational decisions. However, social spotlight glares on the profession due to the intimate nature of her work, opening her to harsh criticism.

A professional dater hates men

The most obvious pre-requisites for becoming an independent escort are to radiate exceptional beauty and sport a heart stopping figure. Biologically, women are wired to think with their hearts, blurring the lines between emotion and intellect. The most demanding and unspoken requirement of an independent escort is an iron clad ability to maintain distinction between personal and professional feelings and conduct. The task comes easier to some than to others. She must constantly check her reality to make sure that she has not lost her balance in life. The task can be quite dangerous and draining. This is one reason why many companions take breaks from their profession. They need to regroup and reclaim a sense of self. An independent escort must essentially go against her biological grain and maintain distinction between professional and personal. It is a constant psychological workout. She must always remember that her persona is not really her but a distant reflection of who she is at best. When she allows reality and fantasy to mingle, she loses control not only of herself but of her business. She gets hurt. When this happens continuously, she may grow to dislike men.

A professional entertainer loves her job

She is the companion, courtesan or independent escort who has learned to navigate the sometimes treacherous waters of professional intimacy. It is an inherent talent that comes natural to her. Such an independent escort knows when to ‘check out’. In other words, she knows when she has finished work and can resume her personal life. A courtesan has mastered balancing the opposing worlds of reality and fantasy and is empowered as a result. Even still, she knows to retreat at some point to rejuvenate and nurture her sense of self.

The wise escort is discerning about who she entertains

Associating with a club such as City Girls provides her with an insurance policy of sorts. She is provided with the peace of mind that her suitors are gentlemen who will treat her with respect. But the escort who is not backed by such a club (or any reputable agency) is on her own. She will not date just anyone for the sake of a date. She has adopted a business model, so to speak. She has a clear vision of what defines her clientele and does not stray from a process that is tried and true. She couples mandatory screening with a refined intuition that work in concert to keep her safe and her business lucrative. The results are magnificent! Her formula attracts clients who compliment her. In turn, her reputation flourishes. Her success snowballs and suddenly her profession as an independent escort flows.

With a multitude of kisses, Chloe xoxo